Fights and Lack of Love
Fights and Lack of Love

How to fan the passion in the couple?

Economic problems, children, domestic chores. All that (and more) are factors that reduce the desire to be together, to do new things, to put aside the routine. If you’ve been with a couple for a while and you’ve started to notice that the relationship is cooling, we recommend you pay attention to these tips to fan the passion:

1. Be more detailed

It is true that among so many obligations we ‘forget’ to be affectionate and express our feelings. You must bear in mind that the details can serve to rekindle the fire in the couple. Something as simple as leaving a note on the night table or sending a message to the mobile can change the day.

Call him in the middle of the day to find out how he is and tell him how much you love him (and not to ask him anything), leave a flower on his pillow… There are thousands of ways! Being a retailer includes asking how he has been today and staying listening without interrupting.

2. Surprise with an exit

Sometimes, we have to leave home to fan the passion, because if we stay, although the plan is to watch a movie or dine by candlelight, there will always be ‘unhappy’ songs or someone will interrupt the evening.

We advise you to organize a surprise weekend getaway, or a Sunday afternoon walk. Buy tickets to the cinema or the theater, eat at a restaurant, go to a museum or have a picnic in the park. The important thing is that they leave the routine aside.

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3. Do something different in bed

Innovation must be present all the time in the couple, because otherwise it is easy to get bored. To fan the passion, you can expect it with a provocative attire (or no clothes) in bed, do some romantic massages, decorate the room with candles, everything is allowed.

Practicing only one type of sex leads to boredom, of that there is no doubt. How about adding toys, taking pictures, blindfolding?

This type of ‘intimate surprises’ take us out of the routine and allow us to enjoy sex in another way. They can also try different postures and cheer up what they have not done yet.

4. Talk about your fantasies

Believe it or not, the conversation also allows to fan the passion. But for this the slogan is: what is your unrealized fantasy (yet)? Talk about what you would like to do to get out of the monotony.

Maybe you like the idea of ​​having sex in the car, on the beach, in the garden or on the balcony. Do not be embarrassed or shameless, talk it out openly. And of course: Do your best to fulfill that fantasy!

5. Cultivate romanticism

The preamble to a night of good sex that rekindles the flame of passion, without a doubt is a romantic plan. We have already talked about dinner by candlelight or affectionate messages, but you can also be more attentive when you return from work, cook together, take a dip bath, share a delicious snack …

The important thing is to cultivate love and then reap passion. Of course both are related!

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6. Be ‘unknown’ again

In a couple that takes some time, it is more likely that the affection has won the debauchery, it is never wrong to return to the origins, that is, when they first met.

Surely, at that time there were many nights of pleasure and enough conversation. And they had a wonderful time! They can play that they just saw each other in a couple of dates and ignore each other with many things they already know about each other. It will be fun to remember the past.

The preamble to a night of good sex that rekindles the flame of passion, without a doubt is a romantic plan. We have already talked about dinner by candlelight or affectionate messages, but you can also be more attentive when you return from work, cook together, take a dip bath, share a delicious snack …

The important thing is to cultivate love and then reap passion. Of course both are related!

6. Be ‘unknown’ again

In a couple that takes some time, it is more likely that the affection has won the debauchery, it is never wrong to return to the origins, that is, when they first met.

Surely, at that time there were many nights of pleasure and enough conversation. And they had a wonderful time! They can play that they just saw each other in a couple of dates and ignore each other with many things they already know about each other. It will be fun to remember the past.

7. Increase physical contact

When was the last time you hugged your partner or took his hand to walk? These contacts (as well as kisses and caresses) can help you stoke passion.

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Since everything starts with physical closeness and is an excellent way to express feelings, feel more! And we do not mean just in bed or in privacy. In the day to day you can find peace in a hug, a ‘mime’ or a kiss. It’s as simple as that.

8. Leave the mobile

In this age of hyperconnectivity, it is common not to pay attention to what happens around us, and that includes our partner, family and friends. To be able to fan the passion, do the following exercise: when you arrive home after your daily activities, leave your mobile in a distant room. If they are in the kitchen, they put it on the night table; if they are in the room, they keep it in the room.

Turn off the television, computer or any electronic device. Add the ‘not available’ poster on social networks and instant messaging applications. Take advantage of that disconnection to talk, tell your stuff, express feelings … And enjoy a different evening.

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